你走後，他並沒有你想象的那麼沮喪。相反，他在那個世界裡是快樂和自由的。

After you left， he was not as depressed as you thought。 On the contrary， he was happy and free in that world。

後來積累了很多煩惱，有懷疑，有責備，有厭惡。

Later， I accumulated a lot of troubles， including doubt， blame and disgust。

其實男人真的很喜歡你的外表，有三個字——捨不得。

In fact， men really like your appearance， there are three words - reluctant。

在你放棄之前，你還要跟著這樣的人多久？

How long do you have to follow such a person before you give up？

不管它有多窮，都不要談論它。雖然咬緊牙關堅持痛苦，但至少活得有尊嚴。

No matter how poor it is， don‘t talk about it。 Although clench your teeth and insist on suffering， at least live with dignity。

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這意味著你只是一廂情願，如果你被冤枉了，那是你應得的。

This means that you are just wishful thinking。 If you are wronged， you deserve it。

在你的餘生裡，學會做一個“安靜”的女人。

Learn to be a “quiet” woman for the rest of your life。

放下，就不會糾結糾結，也就不會有幻想。

Put it down， there will be no entanglement and fantasy。

這輩子，總有一個人，是你愛的和不愛的，讀了又看

In this life， there is always someone you love and don’t love， read and read

給自己留點面子，好好照顧自己，好好管理自己，才是最值得做的事情。

Saving face， taking good care of yourself and managing yourself are the most worthwhile things to do。

所以，不妨勸自己樂觀堅強。

Therefore， you might as well persuade yourself to be optimistic and strong。

這樣活著，不自卑也不自大，不沮喪也不沮喪，才是人生最好的境界。

Living in this way， without inferiority or arrogance， without depression or depression， is the best state of life。

另一個原因是他只是拒絕你的注意，所以他不想讓你知道關於他的任何事情。

Another reason is that he just refuses your attention， so he doesn‘t want you to know anything about him。