在我們愛的人面前，我們也需要保持清醒的頭腦。學會表達適當的感受和需要是學習如何關心一個人的必要課程。

We also need to keep a clear head in front of the people we love。 Learning to express appropriate feelings and needs is a necessary course for learning how to care about a person。

而年輕的男人則不同，因為年齡的優勢，這種男人骨子裡有浪漫的因素，總是儘自己最大的努力準備驚喜，讓自己的女人開心。

Young men are different。 Because of the advantages of age， such men have romantic factors in their bones。 They always try their best to prepare surprises and make their women happy。

不僅如此，當你得到提升時，他們總是表現出對你的尊重，說各種關於你的好話，有時還會不遺餘力地滿足你的要求。

Moreover， when you are promoted， they always show respect for you， say all kinds of good words about you， and sometimes spare no effort to meet your requirements。

關於感情，女人總是容易被眼前的甜蜜，矇蔽雙眼，用“單純”的心態面對對方，卻不知道男人的“狡猾”。

About feelings， women are always easy to be blinded by the sweetness in front of them and face each other with a “simple” mentality， but they don‘t know the “cunning” of men。

人們常說，戀愛中的女人在做加法，戀愛中的男人在做減法。在戀愛關係中，一旦男人有了“你不能離開他”的感覺，他就不會把你當回事。

It is often said that women in love are adding and men in love are subtracting。 In a relationship， once a man has the feeling of “you can’t leave him”， he won‘t take you seriously。

份量不足說明這個人沒把你當回事，或者不理解你的胃口。

Insufficient weight means that the person doesn’t take you seriously or doesn‘t understand your appetite。

“壞”女人深諳男人的心理需求，懂得如何與男人相處，知道男人喜歡什麼。

“Bad” women understand men’s psychological needs， know how to get along with men， and know what men like。