中年時，要學會自我放手，要服從生活中的不完美。

In middle age， we should learn to let go of ourselves and obey the imperfections in life。

人生一世，其實最大的對手，不過是自己而已。

In life， in fact， the biggest opponent is just yourself。

而且一般都是花心的男人，都喜歡做這些事情，女人可要讓你的眼睛亮起來，遠離渣男。

And generally， they are playful men who like to do these things。 Women should brighten your eyes and stay away from scum men。

他喜歡懂音樂、有天賦的女人，這樣和他相處的時候，你也能不時地展現出自己的一面。

He likes women who understand music and have talent， so you can show your side from time to time when you get along with him。

人到了中年，就會愈來愈貪戀家庭圓滿，朋友接近的生活狀態。

In middle age， people will become more and more greedy for the life of family perfection and friends。

我們說，女為悅己者容，士為知己者死。不管是你的示弱還是有所求，都能讓男人特別看重你，偏愛你。

We say that a woman will let those who please her， and a scholar will die for those who know her。 Whether you show weakness or ask for something， it can make men pay special attention to you and favor you。

七年之癢並不只是一種檢測，而是一道關卡，讓你們感情沉澱的關鍵。

The seven-year itch is not just a test， but a checkpoint， the key to your emotional precipitation。

你們看起來“平常”，其實都是他的動機和暗示。

You look “normal”， but it‘s all his motives and hints。

事實上，那些你認為不遂人願的人生，卻是許多人無法企及的美好；你處處挑剔的人生，或許已經足夠包容你。

In fact， those lives that you think fail to meet people’s wishes are beautiful that many people can‘t reach； Your picky life may be enough to accommodate you。

無可避免的煩惱，無數的慾望與痛苦，是生活的常態。

Inevitable troubles， countless desires and pains are the norm of life。